March 2020

Guide

Emptiness of the Ailment

After talking to my personal friend Laura Fuentes, I realized that being in a marriage and having a terminal illness can change your relationship and life forever. Think about it this way, you are born healthy, have children (if children are involved), work and take on all the task of living a normal day to day life.

Then, you are informed you have a terminal illness. What does this do to your relationship? It can drastically change the way you live including your outlook on life, the way you see the people around you, the importance of things, the guilt of becoming ill, the feelings of being victimized and the anger of “why me.” Whether you have children or not, your relationship can be shattered. If you are dating someone, chances are you will not be able to make the relationship work. It is the most difficult and stressful thing to deal with.

This is the biggest spanner in the workforce of life that changes it completely where you are constantly dreading about the future and forget to live in the present and are constantly sympathized by well wishers and once the stress takes a toll both physically and emotionally you die even before actual death and there is little that Cialis can do in this regard.

Marriage alone is very hard and the occurring changes throughout with set back’s and growth through years of being together is minor compared to an added terminal illness.

The stages between couples:

Shock/fear-The shock of the terminal illness is the first stage of being informed. You feel an instant fear of what’s ahead, if your partner will be accepting and supportive of you. Both of you will have a fear of the change and whether you can handle the illness and on the other side if your partner is willing to deal with it.

Learning/informing-After the initial shock of learning that you have an illness, next comes the actual process of educating yourself, your children (if children are involved) and trying to include your partner with all the information about the illness. It may be frustrating and very discouraging when you first learn about the illness. Your partner may have no interest in being included in the information you are trying to share with them about what you will be going through. This can be painful knowing you can’t do this alone and your partner may feel the same frustration not understanding why they have to go through this with you.

Victim/why me-Then, there is the victim stage, the why me. Wondering why you feel so alone with the illness. Feeling as if no one understands or cares. Wanting sympathy and not understanding why anyone including your partner has no concern. This can be the most discouraging stage of the illness, because you really don’t know if your partner will stay along side with you. You don’t know when your illness will attack you and if you will be alone when it happens. It is very discouraging and it can bring on feelings of shame.

Anger/feeling alone-The anger sets in because you are not use too the outbreaks of the illness, you are unable to work or continue with your daily task. You feel alone because your partner doesn’t understand and doesn’t have an interest in the way you feel. It’s a disaster and a quick way to end a relationship. Your partner may not take your illness serious while in this process. It may take an actual outbreak before they come to terms with the fact that the illness is real. You know it’s real because you feel all the horrible effects of what the illness if doing to your body but no one can possibly understand since it’s within you and this can cause outbreaks of anger and change in your demeanor causing major relationship shifts.

Sometimes, it takes an eye opener for the relationship to work. Possibly when your partner actually goes through the process of actually seeing you in an outbreak of your illness and a hospital stay, feeling that they may lose you. Dealing first hand with the true severity of what the terminally ailment is about. Going through the actual stages of the illness rather than hearing you tell them what can possibly happen can make it easier for them to understand.

Some partners may walk away only because it is very hard for someone to adjust to such a big change in a relationship. Loss of who the person previously was. Loss of double income can cause more stress on both people. Having to deal with terminal illnesses can be destructive.

Your partner may feel just as alone as the person with the illness. Not knowing how to handle the downfall, the feelings of being lonely, or helpless. It’s very hard on both sides. It’s important for people to understand that it can work but it’s up to both people to make it work. Both the person with the illness and the person supporting them.

Laura Fuentes clearly states “I was superwoman before and it has been hard to relinquish that title. In a nutshell with the love and continuous support of her family and husband it’s worked. So, if you are in a relationship with someone that is terminally ill or you are terminally ill, understand that is a continuous battle and nothing will ever be “normal”, but what is?

It may not be easy dealing with a terminal illness; it may not work out for you while in a relationship. It is very hard on the partner with the illness. As they try to absorb the fact that they are no longer living the comfort of their “normal” life. The fact that they can no longer work and feeling no self worth. But if their partner is strong enough and willing to go through all the stages, all the ups and downs it can work.

It’s clearly up to both partners to make it happen. Just be compassionate if you are the supporting partner as well as if you are the one with the illness. And always remember it is hard on both partners with such significant change.

Arts and Entertainment

Nightmare on Elm Street Movie Remake: My Thoughts

It has happened horror fans, Freddy Krueger is getting the remake treatment. Worse news is we might be getting a new Krueger with Robert Englund believing a younger actor should take over the role.

As a fan I am very upset. I’m more upset with Englund being replaced as Freddy Krueger then the film being remade. In this articles I will share my thoughts on this remake and why it should or should not happen.

Back in January I reported this on tubidy:

“According to Bloody Disgusting, a source inside at New Line Cinema, the studio is developing another Nightmare on Elm Street movie that will not be Freddy Vs. Jason 2.”

I assumed this meant a new sequel, which excited the fanboy in me. But deep down I knew it would be a remake cause being original in Hollywood these days is RARE.

Michael Bay and his minions have decided to hit the re-start button on the Nightmare on Elm Street, despite the last Krueger adventure (Freddy vs Jason) making big money at the box office.

They’re also doing a new Friday the 13th, but that’s not a remake (despite news sites still calling it one, IT’S NOT). Why not do that with Freddy? or is Michael Bay and his minions too lazy to come up with an original concept?

Michael Bay and his minions (I love using this term, sue me) remade “The Texas Chainsaw Massacre” in 2003 and I remember being upset before the films release. Why the hell would they want to remake such a classic!? Of course the answer would be $$$. But then I thought about the last time we saw Leatherface and that was in the terrible “Texas Chainsaw Massacre: The Next Generation”. I then shut up and saw the remake in theaters and it was actually pretty damn good. It brought respect back to Leatherface, who was seen as an idiotic pussy in the last Chainsaw film.

So why no remake for Freddy for me? Cause Freddy doesn’t need respect back and the nightmare series is far from dead, unlike Texas Chainsaw Massacre. It’s all about $$$ and being unoriginal for Michael Bay and his minions. And everyone knows who Freddy Krueger is, no need to re-introduce him for the new generation.

But hitting the re-start button is not my biggest problem. It’s replacing Robert Englund. This isn’t Jason Voorhees in which several different people have played the character. Englund is Freddy. He’s played the role since the very beginning and to even think of replacing him is insulting. To make it worse Robert Englund thinks it’s a good idea! Thanks for thinking of your fans Bro. I rather see the character retire then someone else play Freddy Krueger.

But it’s going to happen any ways so why complain? cause it’s my damn right as a fanboy. I want to see a new Nightmare on Elm Street film but not a remake. I don’t want to re-start and see Nancy Thompson and her friends being terrorized by a new Freddy Krueger, screw that. I saw that film already. I want a fresh and brand new Nightmare story with Robert Englund stepping back in the role.

A script hasn’t been written yet and no director has been attached so nothing is final yet. But considering it’s Michael Bay you can expect the Nightmare on Elm Street remake to be charging at you soon.

Finance

Progressive Activist Ends, Justify The Liberal Capitalist Means

I personally can’t think of anyone on this planet that I would plunk down $35,800 to eat dinner with. According to the 2010 Census Bureau the median household income was $49,445 and after taxes, insurance and the 401K it’s far less than $35,800. So when I read that our President was attending two fundraisers for himself and the DNC at $35,000 a plate, I assume it was liberal corporations and private liberal citizens attending. Ironic isn’t it? I thought Obama didn’t like rich people other than himself, Warren Buffet, George Soros and Andy Stern. If you’re rich, green and left, then you’ve got a friend in the White House. Obama, and Stern are middle class citizens compared to the financial likes of Buffet and Soros. I’ve asked the very few wealthy liberal friends that I have and they don’t want to share their wealth with me or anyone for that matter. My liberal buddies choke on their lemon grass popsicle sticks when I bring it up. They blatantly stutter without realizing their confession “I have earned that money why should I take half and give it to you?”

Anyways, they are entitled to their choice and I am to mine as we are living in the oldest democratic country in the world and the fact that we both have difference of opinion is a good sign that indicates that democracy continues to prevail. Liberals need to take an rfp response of sorts on how to deal with financial matters concerning the government.

Liberals run around like chickens with their heads cut off, squawking about rich people needing to pay more taxes, and giving their fair share to the less fortunate meaning the government. How does Obama look these people in the eyes and say “I really don’t like you and I despise what you have worked for but give to my campaign?” The major most influential liberal foundations are the Ford Foundation, the Rockefeller Foundation, the Carnegie Corporation and the Gates Foundation all created by America’s most avid capitalists. The rationale would be that progressives working towards creating a “new world order” should keep away from the foundations formed by the same capitalists who stand to lose the most from this skewed submissive governmental theory of control. Is anyone asking this question? Why are progressives / liberals and several radical groups accepting funding from these major liberal capitalist foundations?

Several progressive activists realize that the biggest goals and objectives of capitalist-funded liberal foundations are unable to coexist with their own uncompromising, diehard dreams for our planet. However in realizing this conflict of interest, it’s obvious that progressive groups assume that they can deceive the liberal capitalist foundations at their own game and hoodwink them into donating to the projects that will engage and promote serious progressive social change. In short, progressive groups / activist will take money from anyone as long as contracts and strings aren’t attached to the greenbacks. So I gather that the liberal foundations are funding the activist groups that are trying to bring about massive societal changes, basically at their own capitalist demise. So why do these foundations keep funding the progressive activists at the expense of their own possible extinction?

Former SEIU President Andy Stern and close friend of the White House said “We use the power of persuasion first. If it doesn’t work, we try the persuasion of power.” Isn’t that how we were raised? No? Me either but it explains how the means justify the ends.

Guide

Top Questions To Ask Your Garage Door Repair Company Before Hiring Them

If you need to get repairs done on your AAA – Garage Doors Ipswich Pty Ltd, be sure to read this article. Listed below are some of the questions that will let you see if a garage door repair company will provide you with good services or not. Without further ado, let’s start:

  1. The company’s compliance with safety laws

One key factor to consider when deciding on a garage door repair company is ensuring that they are properly following the guidelines and quality regulation requirements to make sure that their employees and clients are safe. There are distinct rules that were provided by the Occupational Safety and Health Administration (OSHA), in addition to the rules and guidelines that were provided by the local government and other agencies.

You should look for firms that focus on their great safety requirements and reduced occurrence of work accidents. They will take your safety very seriously, and you will probably have a relatively safe and smooth working experience with such a company.

  1. The services and products that they offer

It is vital that you inquire or carry out your own analysis and research with regards to the kinds of services and products that a garage door company provides. There are many different garage doors, with different materials, door openers, and more. As such, you will want to be serviced by a company that is familiar with the type of garage door that is installed in your garage. There are companies that are specialized in repairing a particular type of garage doors, while some companies are versatile enough to offer both installations of new doors and repairs of broken ones. There are even companies that offer to carry out the maintenance needs of your garage doors.